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A Cross Cultural Perspective of Polygyny As an institution, polygyny, the social arrangement that permits a man to
have more than one wife at the same time, exists in all parts of the world. From
our present knowledge, there are very few primitive tribes in which a man is not
allowed to enter into more than one union. In fact, ethologists now believe that
only one to two percent of all species may be monogamous (Tucker). None of the
simian species are strictly monogamous; our closest relatives, the chimpanzees,
practice a form of group marriage. Among the 849 human societies examined by the
anthropologist Murdock (1957), 75% practiced polygyny. Many peoples have been
said to be monogamous, but it is difficult to infer from the data at our
disposal whether monogamy is the prevalent practice, the moral ideal, or an
institution safeguarded by sanctions (Malinowski 1962). Historically, polygyny
was a feature of the ancient Hebrews, the traditional Chinese, and the
nineteenth-century Mormons in the United States, but the modern practice of
polygyny is concentrated in Africa, the Middle East, India, Thailand, and
Indonesia. The extent to which men are able to acquire multiple wives depends on
many factors, including the economic prosperity of the man’s family, the
prevailing bride price, the differential availability of marriageable females,
the need and desire for additional offspring, and the availability of productive
roles for subsequent wives. Even in societies that permit polygyny, the
conditions of life for the masses make monogamy the most common form of
marriage. The two variations of polygyny are sororal (the cowives are sisters)
and nonsororal (the cowives are not sisters). Some societies also observe the
custom of levirate, making it compulsory for a man to marry his brother’s
widow. It must be remembered that any form of polygyny is never practiced
throughout the entire community: there cannot exist a community in which every
man would have several wives because this would entail a huge surplus of females
over males (Malinowski 1962). Another important point is that in reality it is
not so much a form of marriage fundamentally distinct from monogamy as rather a
multiple monogamy. It is always in fact the repetition of marriage contract,
entered individually with each wife, establishing an individual relationship
between the man and each of his consorts (Benson 1971). Where each wife has her
separate household and the husband visits them in turn, polygynous marriage
resembles very closely a temporarily interrupted monogamy. In such cases, there
is a series of individual marriages in which domestic arrangements, economics,
parenthood, as well as legal and religious elements do not seriously encroach on
each other. The polygyny with separate households is more universally prevalent.
Among the great majority of the Bantu and Hamitic peoples of Africa, where the
number of wives, especially in the case of chiefs, is often considerable, each
wife commonly occupies a separate hut with her children, and manages an
independent household with well-defined legal and economic rights (Pasternak
1976). Where, on the other hand, as among many N. American tribes, two or more
wives share the same household, polygyny affects the institution of matrimonial
life much more deeply. Unlike wives in many other African groups who live in
their own huts, Ijaw wives have apartments within one large structure and our
brought into much more frequent contact with their co-wives (Rosaldo 1974).
Various theories have been advanced to explain the cultural endorsement of
polygyny. One of the earliest explanations was based on the notion that men have
a greater disposition for variety in sexual partners than do women (Tucker).
Many ethologists believe that there is a sociobiological imperative for men to
have as many sexual partners as possible (Sayers). While this theory is of
historical interest, there exists no empirical support for the greater sex drive
of the male, nor is there any reason to expect the male sex drive to vary from
one culture to another. Women are just as naturally interested in sex, perhaps
even more so. Women can be multi- orgasmic and have a much broader range of
sexual stimulation than men. Non-monogamy is reproductively savvy for males in
order to spread their genes, and for females in order to improve the hardiness
and genetic variety of their offspring (Benson). It has also been suggested that
polygyny as a marriage form evolved in response to lengthy postpartum sex taboos
because polygyny provides a legitimate sexual outlet for the husband during this
period of taboo (Whiting). Whiting discovered that societies dependent on root
and tree crops (presumably low protein societies) are more likely to have a long
postpartum sex taboo, and there did seem to be a statistical association between
the presence of this taboo and a preference for polygyny. While men may seek
other sexual relationships during the period of a long postpartum taboo, it is
not clear why polygyny is the only possible solution to the problem, since the
legitimation of sex does not depend exclusively on marriage. The problem could
be alleviated by extra-marital alliances or masturbation. The existence of a low
sex ratio, a scarcity of men in relation to women, has also been offered as an
explanation for the origin of this practice (Pasternak 1976). Polygyny maximizes
the opportunities for females to marry in a society in which adult males are in
short supply. The fact that the sex ratio at the same time of young adulthood is
numerically balanced in some societies suggests that while a sex ratio imbalance
may contribute to the development of polygyny in special cases, it is an
incomplete explanation for the existence of polygyny in the majority of
societies in the world. For example, plural marriage developed among the Mormons
in Utah when, as in most of the western states of the United States, there was
an excess of males. The theory that has stimulated the most empirical
investigation links the existence of polygyny to the productive value of the
woman. According to this theory, the occurrence of polygyny is positively
related to the extent to which women contribute to the subsistence bases of
their respective societies (Pasternak 1976). However, further research suggests
that the relationship between women’s economic contribution and marriage form
is more complex and that there exists a curvilinear relationship between
women’s productive value and the existence of polygyny (Rosaldo 1974).
Polygyny has been found to be a feature of economic systems where potential
female contribution to subsistence is high (such as in gathering and
agricultural economies). In many African communities, the chief derives his
wealth from the plurality of his wives, who by means of the produce of their
agricultural labor enable him to exercise the lavish hospitality upon which so
much of his power rests. The practice has also been found in economic systems,
however, where potential female contribution is low (such as hunting and fishing
economies). It has been suggested that multiple wives are valued in the first
instance, for economic reasons, while in the latter instance, they are valued
for reproductive reasons in that the taking of multiple wives maximizes the
potential to produce sons, who in turn make an economic contribution (Malinowski
1962). A multitude of wives, however, may increase not only a man’s wealth but
also his social importance, reputation and authority, apart from the influence
of the number of his children. Hence, we find in many Bantu communities of
Africa that the desire to have many wives is one of the leading motives in the
life of every man; while the fact that in many Melanesian and Polynesian
communities, polygyny is a prerogative and therefore the chief testifies to the
social prestige attaching to it (Priso). Politically or socially stratified
divisions within a society also favor the emergence of polygyny, since economic
rights to women can be acquired, and since marriages can be used to create
political alliances between unequal groups (Rosaldo). While polygyny tends to be
viewed by Western cultures as an instrument for the domination of women by men,
the degree of autonomy experienced by women in polygynous unions varies within
and among cultures. The degree of autonomy of each cowife is influenced by the
availability of opportunities outside of the home, the degree to which she
maintains contact with her family of origin, the availability of gainful
employment, the degree of importance attached to the children she has produced,
and her life cycle state. Benefits for the wives also include the sharing of
economic and domestic responsibilities, the freedom that derives from living
apart from the constant supervision of a husband, and the diminished pressure
for constant sexual accessibility. For example in many African polygynous
societies women gain economic autonomy through trading. Trading not only gives
de facto independence from the husband’s authority (and may ease tensions
between cowives), but also brings women together in extra-domestic cooperative
groups such as trading associations (Benson 1971). Paradoxically, polygyny
becomes attractive to both parties. For instance, in Africa a man who controls
much land may marry several wives to work for him. Since he is providing only
about half of their income, even a man of modest means can take several wives.
In addition, women find polygyny helps lighten their work burden. In many cases,
the first wife takes the initiative in suggesting that a second wife, who can
take over the most tiresome jobs in the household, should be procured. In the
traditional African setting, marriage is a matter of considerable importance. It
is through marriage that the constituent elements of society reproduce
themselves and that groups and individuals further a complex strategy. Women
play a crucial role in this process, since they gather and control other women
as wives and companions for brothers, sons, and husbands. A husband chooses his
first wife with care, since she is responsible for training all subsequent wives
and organizing them, older children, clients, wards, and, in the past slaves,
into an agricultural work force. The senior wife is responsible for producing
the agricultural wealth of the household, and if her warrior husband is absent
or preoccupied for long periods of time, it is she who often functions as the
effective head of household. Even though a husband may marry younger, more
beautiful wives, he continues to regard his “big wife” with great respect
and consideration (Rosaldo). In Mende, the head wife in a large polygynous
household is given much religious as well as economic power. She organizes the
agricultural work force, and stores and markets economic surpluses. Because of
these roles, Mende head wives are seen as authority figures, and occasionally a
chief’s head wife will succeed him in office even though she resides
virilocally in his chiefdom and has no genealogical right to rule in the village
of his kin (Tucker). Jealousy, while not an inevitable consequence of polygyny,
is reported in many polygynous societies. Tension is common when women are
competing for goods and services from the husband and since each wife attempts
to build a uterine family at the expense of her co-wives’ children (Rosaldo).
Among the Kanuri of Bornu (part of a centralized Muslim state), women are
married very young, often to middle-aged men. A woman’s ability to control a
husband’s dominance depends on her ability to withdraw food and sexual
services. A second wife is a considerable threat to her, resulting in less
attention for her as well as for her children, and she loses some of her ability
to gain compliance from her husband. However, Malinowski (1962) notes that
jealousy among cowives is more a rivalry to secure maximum access to resources
for themselves and their offspring than sexual jealousy. To minimize this
conflict among cowives, a set of rules is often established that specifies
responsibilities and rights concerning sex, economics, and personal possessions.
A Patani man follows a prescribed order of sleeping with each of his wives, as
does the Korokorosei husband, but the women differ in the scheduling of their
domestic responsibilities to him. A Patani woman cooks and cares for her husband
only when it is her turn to sleep with him. A Korokorosei woman must cook for
her husband every day and perform domestic tasks for him whenever he asks. The
presence of associations in Patani assists a woman in coping with difficulties
in her co-wife relationships. The Korokorosei woman must resolve her own
problems (Priso). In group families the predominant themes is not swinging sex,
however, the “swinging” label still may persist in areas where polygyny is
not so common. A fundamental problem with parenting in such group’s stems from
the social stigma attached to “deviant” life-styles. There are obvious
difficulties in raising children in a social environment so extensively
criticized or condemned, especially when the parents realize that their children
may grow up alienated either from them or from the mainstream culture to which
they eventually will be called on to adapt (Sayres). Children in polygynous
unions may be reared primarily by their mother, under the supervision of the
senior cowife, or jointly with a system of rotation. Because the economic claims
that many cowives make on their husbands are on behalf of their children, one of
the advantages of occupying the position of senior wife is that the position
carries with it preferential treatment for the offspring. The notion that
mothers in polygynous unions develop extraordinary close ties with their
children because of the father’s absence is not supported (Tucker). Although
an African husband can expect to have his wife or wives supporting themselves
and working for him, he has very little claim to his children. Female farming
and polygyny are nearly always coupled with “matrilineal descent,” meaning
that heritage is traced only through the mother’s line. Often children bear
their mother’s name. The result is that marriages are relatively transient and
divorce is common. In African divorce, the husband obtains certain domestic and
sexual services from the wife, but her other loyalties and her offspring always
belong to her lineage (meaning her natal family). If there is divorce, the
lineage will care for her and her children. She is not “absorbed” into her
husband’s lineage. In Stanleyville (the Congo), well over half of those who
had been married had also been divorced. According to one calculation, Hausa
women (in Nigeria) average about three marriages between puberty and menopause.
Eight out of ten persons over 40 years of age in a Yao village (Nyasaland) were
found to have been divorced. In the Voltaic group of the Mossi, men who have
migrated to neighboring Ghana may establish households with the Ashanti women
but avoid marriage because the Ashanti matrilineal descent pattern would not let
them take their own children back with them. In patrilineal or “dual
descent” societies, by contrast, marriages are stable. Illegitimacy is also
regarded differently since children belong to the mother’s line anyway. Early
illegitimacy can even have a positive aspect, since it proves fertility. (Malinowski
1962) Some believe that polygyny is linked with HIV and Hepatitis C. In places
like Rwanda and Burundi, polygyny decreases infection by allowing women for whom
there are not enough available marriageable mates (due to war, violence,
imprisonment, etc.) to be married to the few available marriageable men and be
sexually fulfilled without having to find sex promiscuously or turning to
prostitution to find fulfillment or support themselves. Those who keep their
sexual and body fluid activities within their bonded polygynous marriages do not
spread or acquire HIV. The false hope placed in condoms (which have a 20%
one-out-of-five failure rate according to the FDA and our Public Health Depts.)
results in far more deaths from these diseases than such deaths from polygyny (Sayres).
Although antecedents to the occurrence and maintenance of polygyny vary from
society to society, ideology and customs develop once polygyny is adopted that
contribute to its perpetuation long after the original reason for the practice
disappears. In traditional societies that have encouraged plural marriages in
the past, however, the trend is moving toward monogamy. In some cases, this
movement occurs in stages, and in other cases, polygyny is permitted but
discouraged by recognizing the first marriage as legal and relegating additional
wives to the status of concubines. The explanation most commonly advanced for
this movement away from polygyny is that monogamy is more compatible with
industrialization (Benson 1971). Of course, the role of ideology and the banning
of polygyny must also be considered as factors contributing to the decline of
the practice. Some American men take the position that monogamy protects the
rights of women. However, are these men concerned with liberation movements from
the suffragists of the early twentieth century to the feminists of today? The
truth of the matter is that monogamy protects men, allowing them to “play
around” without responsibility. Easy birth control and easy legal abortion has
opened the door of illicit sex to woman and she has been lured into the
so-called sexual revolution. Nevertheless, she is still the one who suffers the
trauma of abortion and the side effects of the birth control methods. Taking
aside the plagues of venereal diseases, herpes and AIDS, the male continues to
enjoy himself free of worry. Men are the ones protected by monogamy while women
continue to be victims of men’s desires. Polygyny is very much opposed by the
male dominated society because it forces men to face up to responsibility and
fidelity. It forces them to take responsibility for their polygynous
inclinations, and protects and provides for women and children. The bottom line
in the marriage relationship is good morality and happiness, creating a just and
cohesive society where the needs of men and women are well taken care of. The
present Western society, which permits free sex between consenting adults, has
give rise to an abundance of irresponsible sexual relationships, an abundance of
“fatherless” children, many unmarried teenage mothers; all becoming a burden
on the country’s welfare system. In part, such an undesirable welfare burden
has given rise to a bloated budget deficit, which even an economically powerful
country like the United States cannot accommodate. We find that artificially
established monogamy had become a factor in ruining the family structure, and
the social, economic, and political systems in this country. Polygyny has been
practiced by mankind throughout the world for thousands of years. It has been
proven advantageous economically and politically for both males and females.
Having other cowives lets women share the economic and domestic responsibilities
of the household, it allows independence from the husband, and also the freedom
from fulfilling constant sexual needs of the male. In some cases, polygyny
allows women to achieve a higher status within her community that she normally
could not achieve in a monogamous relationship. Polygamous relationships serve
as an alternative to single loneliness, fatherless children, and increasing
violence and juvenile crime in families where the father has left. Polygyny has
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